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Sending Love
I haven't been able to write because there are times when words don't seem to make sense... ...times like right now in the mountain...

Vanessa Walter
Oct 18, 20242 min read
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A Simple Mantra for you...
I have a simple message for today. It's one I learned from my mentor early on and over the years it has become a powerful mantra. This...

Vanessa Walter
Sep 26, 20241 min read
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This will steady us in hard times...
Do you remember a recent time when your child was struggling? A time when things were hard? How did that feel? I know sometimes in...

Vanessa Walter
Sep 26, 20242 min read
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Safety and Connection
"Safety is not the absence of threat... it is the presence of connection."Â -Gabor Mate What comes up for you when you think about...

Vanessa Walter
Sep 26, 20242 min read
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Dealing with disruptions to life
Life changes are never easy. The transition to a new school  year  can feel particularly challenging. In these times of change... ...

Vanessa Walter
Sep 26, 20242 min read
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Vanessa Walter
Jul 25, 20240 min read
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Handling Your Headstrong Child
Do you have a child or teen who seems to argue with everything you say? Who does the exact opposite of what you tell them? Do the words...

Vanessa Walter
Jul 11, 20243 min read
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Let the Sunshine In
Do you ever get that warm, relaxed sensation when you're lying outside, the sun on your skin? It feels so good! Summer is here! This time...

Vanessa Walter
Jun 28, 20242 min read
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A bit early for Halloween...
It's a bit early for Halloween but what I'm writing about today is a little frankensteinian. Wouldn't it be nice if we could talk to our...

Vanessa Walter
Jun 5, 20242 min read
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What's our role as parent?
You have been in my heart since Mothers Day. You do so much, one day to celebrate and honor you just doesn't seem to do justice! With all...

Vanessa Walter
May 15, 20242 min read
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If in doubt...
There can be many seasons throughout our child's life. The season of struggle. The season of ease ...of challenges ...of fun. It can ebb...

Vanessa Walter
May 1, 20242 min read
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How does an ice-cube help me?
Do you ever feel (like I do) that being compassionate with the ones we love can feel a bit daunting? Okay, not a bit daunting. A lot...

Vanessa Walter
Apr 18, 20242 min read
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Empathy phrases for you
Today I'm sending out something short and simple- a couple of empathy phrases. They have been really helpful for me over the years, I...

Vanessa Walter
Apr 10, 20242 min read
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Is Compassion Realistic?
Sometimes compassion is a hard sell. In the face of all the problems our child goes through, something so elusive as compassion can seem...

Vanessa Walter
Apr 10, 20242 min read
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What parents tell me they want for their child...
Whenever I begin to work with a parent I always ask: what do you want for your child when they grow up to be an adult? What I hear over...

Vanessa Walter
Apr 10, 20242 min read
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Love Practical Love
How do I love thee? Let me count the ways... Love. ...It's the one and only word in the English language that expresses the meaning of a...

Vanessa Walter
Apr 10, 20242 min read
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Good Enough is Good Enough
Do you ever feel like no matter what you do, how many books your read or classes you take or podcasts you listen to... you still loose...

Vanessa Walter
Apr 10, 20242 min read
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Give the Gift of Strengths
I've been thinking of you and your family and wondering how it is for you right now in this exciting and stressful 2023 holiday season....

Vanessa Walter
Dec 14, 20232 min read
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The "map of we" Both Separate and Connected (part 2 of 2)
Does this image remind you of the 1982 movie "E.T." about a boy who discovers, befriends and saves a tenderhearted extra terrestrial? It...

Vanessa Walter
Dec 14, 20233 min read
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The Surprising Element Needed for Connection (part 1 of 2)
Fall is settling in. It's that time for feeling cozier as we seek warmth and move inward. It reminds me of that same sweet feeling we...

Vanessa Walter
Dec 14, 20233 min read
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